
"The Look" from Mommy
Well, the “big girl” beds have been up for the past three weeks. Bella has done great with hers and sleeps in it all night every night without a problem whatsoever. Unless you count her trying to find excuses to get up a dozen times after she has been tucked in. It is too funny because she would get up and try to get a book or she would drop a toy or her paci and then say, “Uh-Oh!” thus then having to get out of bed to get it. Bella will also want to have a hug…you get the idea.

Sweet Norah
Aaron or I have been staying with the girls after they get tucked in for 20-30 minutes until they fall asleep. The reason that I was staying in the room with them in the first place was Norah. She would lay down and get tucked in, but would start to cry and run for the door when we started to leave the room. The first night she slept on the floor right in front of the door. I know this because I was going to go in and move her back to her bed, but she was blocking the door and I didn’t want to wake her.
Norah sometimes will sleep in her bed the entire night, but some nights she would wake up halfway through the night, cry for a couple minutes and fall asleep on the floor in front of the door. Other nights, I don’t know if she stayed in bed the whole night, but didn’t hear any crying except for when she woke up (about an hour earlier than normal). She would wake Bella up early and Bella is a grump in the morning anyway without being woke up early, and this is especially the case if she is not allowed to wake on her own.

Bella said "outside" & this it what happens
Now, for some reason over the past couple of nights, Norah has been waking up as soon as the door clicks when it closes. The girl can be asleep and as soon as she hears the door knob engage she bolts up and runs to the door crying. We swear the girl has some extra sense about her! We tried putting her back in bed, but she kept getting up and crying. She bangs on the door screaming for Mommy or Daddy. Finally, Aaron just quit going back in and she fell asleep (in front of the door, of course).
It has been like this for the past few nights. Last night almost broke my heart because when we went up to bed I saw two of her little fingers peeking out from underneath their door. We tried asking her if she wanted to sleep in her crib again, even put the mattress back in it and put her in it. She hated that and cried to get out. Aaron asked her if she wanted to sleep with Bella and she said, “yes.” So, Aaron tried to put her in bed with Bella. Bella was not the least bit happy about this and threw a little fit. Bella obviously wants her own space and does not want little sis Norah to cramp her style. We tried switching who sleeps in which bed, giving Norah the one by the door and pushing their beds together. Not sure if that is going to do anything. Wendy (from daycare) suggested we make Norah’s bed on the floor and see if maybe reverse psychology might work. I am not sure what to do at this point in time other than let her cry and sleep on the floor. I welcome any suggestions!

Put my shoes and take me outside NOW!
Bella continues to talk more and more and more. She is talking is short sentences and still surprises us with words that she has learned or picked up from somewhere. She is also starting to repeat words she hears on TV. Norah is more reserved and quiet yet. Wendy tells us what we already know, which is Norah (who is the loud screamer of the two) is very quiet when she does talk. It is indeed very soft, gentle voice when she telling you things she knows. Bella is the more shy of the two often taking much time to warm up to people and talk to them. Norah has never met a stranger in her life.
We capped the week off as we went out to eat with our friends Wes and Stacey as well as their three kids. It was the first time we have attempted to eat out with 4 adults, 2 kids (age 8 and 4), 2 toddlers (age almost 2) and a 3 month old. As you can imagine, trying to find a restaurant that can accommodate our very specific seating arrangement is not easy. So we ate at McDonalds…..just kidding–that is what we joke about. That being one of the few places we can eat. Anyway we ate O’Charleys. The wait was not ideal, but they were able to seat us. We had a good time, then went over to their house so we could watch the Tournament and the girls could play with their kids. It was a good time.
So you might be wondering about this point in the blog why we titled this post, Poker and “Craps”….so here is the story behind the title:
The second night I stayed in the room with her until she fell asleep and I did that every night the first week. On Friday night of last week, Aaron was at his friend’s house for the guy’s poker night, so I had the girls all to myself. We did the normal routine as I got the girls bathed and dressed. I tucked them into bed, read them a book and kissed them goodnight. I went into the next room to listen to make sure they fell asleep. Now normally, as most parents know, there is not that immediate “go to sleep” mode. There is the rustling around, the noise of getting out of bed, the “peeps” and the taking. I only been out of the room for a few minutes. Norah was upset and started to cry. This is normal so I decided to let her cry for a bit. I was in the computer room (right next to their room) for about 5 minutes and went to check on them because it got awfully quiet. This in itself should have been a sign; a notice that when it gets too quiet, something is up.
So I walked over to their door and took a peek in. What I found is something that I would rather forget. Norah had her PJs unzipped and her diaper off. No big deal, right? Has happened several times before as we have discovered she wants to be a nudist. And normally, I could handle that, but this time the diaper contained poop. And again, as a parent for almost 2 years, poop should be no big deal. But this time, it was different. She had it on her stomach, her leg, the inside of her PJs, her hands, sheets, bed, etc., etc. If that was not bad enough and to top this evening off, Bella had poop on her hands and there were poop spots on the floor. So there are my two girls, one half naked covered in poop, the other eyes as big as could be with poop on her hands telling me, “Mommy! Mess!”, as if I did not know or could not see.
Apparently, when removing the diaper the poop fell on the floor and Bella took it upon herself to pick it up and put it in the diaper champ. Because Bella you see is the champ of picking up trash and putting it where it goes. This includes things we give them to throw away such as bottles, boxes, you know–trash and even dirty diapers that have been properly wrapped up by Mommy and Daddy. So I guess Bella just thought she was doing a good deed, a service, something that Mommy and Daddy would be proud of. So we can now add poop to the list however I am not sure if we should be proud of this or not. On one hand she did a good job of identifying the poop as trash and putting it away, thus helping her sister out. On the other hand, it was POOP! I had to clean the diaper champ were it stuck to the surface and I had to clean up where it had bounced around while she was trying to dispose of it.
I ended up having to re-bathe and PJ the girls. I also had the pleasure of wiping down the diaper champ, a couple of the bed rails and changing their linens. I also made sure to stay with them that night until they fell asleep–lesson learned. I will also say that Aaron is very lucky he was not home because he would have been more than a little disgusted with the clean-up. So while he played poker, I got stuck playing with the “craps”. Doesn’t quite seem all that fair.
Aaron will be with the girls most of next week as it is his Spring Break. Hopefully the girls will take it easy on him. So enjoy the pictures and don’t forget to check on the Picture of the Week and the full collection of pictures on Flickr.
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What the heck is on my hand?
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“The Look” from Mommy
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Who is that peeking?
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Put my shoes and take me outside NOW!
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Our always happy girl
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Bella said “outside” & this it what happens
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Evidence of picking up trash
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Happier times
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Mmmm….muffin
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Twins fighting
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Sweet Norah
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Silly girl
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Twins at Play
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Bella’s mood lately
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Slobbering mess
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Pouty Lip
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Cute Bella with “pony”